Archive for the ‘Mindful’ Category

Aug

31st

A New Dawn

 

By now, the news is out. We are parents. We brought Skye Rebecca home on the 20th of August. She’s named for our favorite place on Earth, and for Becky, her birthmother.

Being parents of a newborn at this stage in our lives is, on the one hand, surreal (many of our colleagues will be grandparents by the time our daughter starts 5th grade) but on the other, so satisfying – and honestly? It’s the perfect time for us. My mother-in-law likes to remind me that “God’s timing is perfect” and she couldn’t be more correct in this instance.

She’s everything we knew we wanted, and everything we didn’t know we needed.

* Feeding Skye, 0430 hrs. Spectre keeps watch.
Jul

17th

No day of Rest here…

 

It’s a Sunday, which used to be a relaxing day for me.

The last few weeks, Sundays have been anything but.

We’re getting ready to move, and with moving, comes the inspection of what we own and what we really need.

I don’t think I could ever be a minimalist.  (I’m just being honest.)  I do, however, really like the look of clean counters, fresh flowers on an otherwise empty tablescape, and an orderly closet.

If I get brave, I’ll post the Befores and Afters. 8-O

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For now – here’s some inspiration* I read today when I sat down for a little bit to regroup with a cup of great coffee:

A Joy to Keep House?!

Yes. When your home is organized and decluttered…you will be a different person. Your outlook on life changes. Situations that seemed out of control and chaotic now seem manageable.

The state of your home is in direct proportion to the state of your heart/mind. When you have piles of stuff all over your house, your spirit just gets bogged down with all of it whether you know it or not. When you don’t have to worry about moving your STUFF around, cleaning your STUFF, and storing your STUFF…you have a lot more time to spend doing things things that you love and spending time with your family and friends!

And that’s what life is all about.

*Thanks to one of my favorite bloggers, Sara, for this tidbit.

 

 

Jul

11th

Thinkin’ about Drinkin’

“Everything in moderation.”

Wow, what a concept.  And the Seven Sages only said it 2600 years ago or something like that?

About a year ago, I decided to quit drinking.  I still might have a glass of wine with supper sometimes – but it’s not a regular event. I can now say that I “rarely drink.”

I’m proud of that.

I’m happy to explain the decision to anyone who asks – I would say it was a spiritual decision that I felt compelled to make, but after I made it, the physical benefits have kept me going.

I lost 35 pounds.

Running became easier.

Waking up became easier.

Concentrating became easier.

I just felt better.

And last night, John and I decided to do something with the truckload of corks we had amassed during the years I was drinking…and I was a little shocked at the volume of wine and Champagne and sparkling wine and Prosecco bottles they represented.

We filled three bulletin board kits that we got from The Wine Enthusiast.

That’s a lot of corks…and a lot of money…and a lot of calories.

I wish I wasn’t such a slow learner, but I’ll never forget the lesson.

It was too dearly learned.

Jul

9th

For Better, or Worse…

I’m over in the Desert again; John is at home.

He is wandering around the house “looking for things I can help you with, Hol.”

This behavior makes me nervous.

Case in point: He found the stash of wedding pictures that I Still. Haven’t. Made. Into. An. Album.

We got married nearly eight years ago, People. (I know.  Please don’t judge me.)

You know, we had a great wedding. It was a small wedding, but I cannot think of a single person up until that time who was alive and who was an important part of our lives who wasn’t there to share our day.  It was the kind of wedding you wait for a long time, but know you waited for the right person…all of us were relaxed, full of laughter, and nobody got too crazy.

Here’s a pic John sent me for the album. “Me-n-my girls” were vamping for the camera, when we spotted this clown (I kid you not) walking up the main street. I got married in Manitou Springs, which has that delightful crunchy vibe that I absolutely love. So, we looked at each other and figured we ought to wave our Freak Flags right along with him.

Because we had the world’s most easygoing photographers, when I asked the clown to join us, Becky just took it in stride…and snapped what is one of my favorite pictures of the day:

But the man who really brought the house down?

Had to be my dear “Godfather,” Rusty Sachs…an irreverent, brilliant, hilarious Marine who speaks fluent French, has impeccable taste and bearing, and who has been a fixture in my life since I’ve been alive. He and his entire family are…well, Family.

Rusty agreed to marry us, and my request was for him to use free license when he wrote our vows. I have a copy of them somewhere – but one of my favorite lines, which Rusty delivered in the most serious tone after warning John that he was not marrying some “piece of common chattel,” was

 

Do you, Holly, take John, to your wedded husband –

- in Flowers and in Weeds…in Freezing and in Swelter?”

Yeah, I couldn’t keep a straight face, either. ;)

I just love that guy. And I love Rusty, too.

Jun

26th

A “Soft Day”

Last night, I read, in one sitting, a fascinating book by food blogger and author Molly Birnbaum, called Season to Taste:  How I Lost My Sense of Smell and Found My Way.

Molly was in a traumatic accident several years ago that crushed her skull and left her (thankfully, temporarily) without the ability to smell – and subsequently, taste.  Only 10% of people so afflicted ever regain their sense of smell – and if you’ve ever had a cold before – and attempted to enjoy a meal…well, stuffy nose and general malaise aside, you cannot!  You really only taste dulled, muted versions of sweet, sour, bitter – and maybe experience the residual heat from something spicy.  It’s miserable.

Molly has, for the most part, recovered.  Her book takes us through the years when she dreamed of becoming a chef, to the years following the accident when she had all but given up her dream – and through her recovery…where she chronicles being rewarded, slowly, by wisps of scents – mostly from New York – the dank subways (not so great) or the drifting wave of Chanel #5 on the street – (a “powdery floral” … and always great).

I was interested by this girl because her accident was reminiscent of one my brother had a few years ago that prevented him from being recalled to the Army … both Molly and Armour were hit by cars when they were out for some fresh air and exercise – Molly was running, Armour was on his bike, training for his next triathlon.

The similarities don’t end there; Armour, as I said, was spared a recall to combat from his Army Individual Ready Reserve status – but Molly’s boyfriend was not.  I recall, actually, that I first started reading Molly’s blog because of her connection to that fellow West Pointer – and then kept reading it because her writing is so wonderful.  Her descriptions are so exact, so detailed but never boring or verbose.  She has said before that she admires “spare” writing, and she has achieved it – but not at the expense of us wanting to read more – every writer’s dream, I should think.   :)

Anyway, I finished her book last night – but in between, treated John to a “Molly recipe” – that I found on her blog, here.  It was, as John said, a “keeper.”  I made this flavorful chicken, topped with a piquant Greek yogurt sauce, and paired it with Ina Garten’s unexpected version of broccoli – where you roast the florets, and then toss them with a bright blend of toasted pine nuts, lemon zest, and smooth curls of Parmesan.

I loved our Saturday night.



And today?  Today is Sunday, and typically a day of preparation for the week ahead.

And because it is still rainy and a “soft day” outside (my favorite weather!) I am also “homing“…and enjoying my life at home.



 

 

Have a lovely week, Friends.*

 

* Thanks to my John for the close-ups of our yard, in the rain.
Jun

20th

Heritage

We bought these cups in Scotland during our trip there with Armour in 2007.

The Crawford motto is Tutum Te Robore Reddam – (I Will Make You Safe with Strength).

The Craig motto is listed as J’ai Bonne Esperance – (I have Good Hope).*

We find both mottos very appropriate to our personalities – and the fact that John’s heritage boasts the St. Hubertus stag and mine features a knight on horseback – well, that’s just eerily appropriate.

I also really like that, in alphabetical order in the Clan Registry, these names are listed one right after the other. :)

*Sometimes, the Craig motto is listed as: “Vive Deo et Vives” which means “Live for God and You Shall Have Life.”  To which I say: Amen.
Jun

12th

One Year Later

You know how some people come into your life…and you automatically realize they’re a Force of Nature?

Yeah, well…my sis-in-law is like that.  I’ve come to know my new Sister as someone I love.  She’s dynamic.  She’s fun-loving and a bit raucous – but controlled and disciplined, confident but vulnerable, sassy but sincere, strong but feminine, a tomboy but a cosmopolitan professional, and … best of all, she loves my brother. :)

A year ago today, family and friends gathered to witness their union as husband and wife.  It was a sweltering, sticky, heavy, hot day – but exciting, and breathless, and filled with “What’s Next?” and “Best Wishes” and – who knew (?) The day after the day after the wedding, my niece was no longer a hoped-for wish.   (Joy!)

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So, Congratulations Armour and Tanya – for one wonderful year, that gave us happiness, gave us wings, gave us hope – and gave us Lovely Little Alexandra Antonia “Alex” Craig. :)

You two are super together, and we love you so much…all of us…

…including these Crazy Four, who incidentally, witnessed my own Very Happy Union:

Jun

1st

He’s Home, At Last

Chances are, when said and done
Who’ll be the lucky ones…who make it all the way?

Don’t get me wrong, I never say never -
‘Cause though Love can’t change the weather, no act of God could pull me away from you.

I’m just a realistic man – a bottle filled with shells and sand -
Afraid to love beyond what I could lose when it comes to you.

Eight-to-five, or two-to-one -lay your money on the sun – until you crash, what have you done?

Is there a better bet than Love?

What you are is what you bring…you gotta cry before you sing.

Chances are…we’ll be the combination.

Chances are waiting to be taken.

Chances are only what we make them……and all I need.

 

* “Chances” – Five for Fighting
May

28th

Little Shadows

Screech & Hoot are back. They reminded me tonight, as time looms ever closer ’til I will see my Beloved again – how important it is to embrace every moment – even while you feel that the waiting will never end.

And their soft wings and tiny spirits reminded of Crowfoot, the Blackfoot warrior, who back in 1890 illustrated the fleeting nature of Life in these poignant words:

“What is life?

“It is the flash of a firefly in the night.

“It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime.

It is the little shadow which runs across grass and loses itself in the sunset.”

Those words are so beautiful – and if read out loud, sound like a prayer.

May

15th

A Gentle Man

…and, yes, he is also a gentleman.

I love how I can see his patience on display with this wild animal – the calm waiting is palpable.

16 Days! :)


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